Do you breathlessly race on the hamster wheel of your mind trying to figure out WHY something isn’t the way you wish it to be. Especially since you have been working so hard at that relationship or visualizing, seeing yourself at that successful point at work, and taking all the necessary actions you can think of performing to make everything in life be just right?

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Maybe it’s a relationship that you just can’t figure out with your partner, child or parent. Or a situation at work that has yet to unfold the way you expected.

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Often people become so focused on every detail in attempting to fit a situation snuggly into their own personal idea, their own personal life rules of “how things should be.” These are often fixed concepts that have been learned , perceived or created while developing as a child. Feelings as these not uncommonly arise from a place of Ego, and a desire to contain the world around them in a nice little conforming box.

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Another reason one might become obsessed with other people or situations is to avoid dealing with their own personal issues and growth (a distraction from taking care of themselves). Another way to state this might be “you are living some else’s life, rather than your own.”

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As a result of these types of thoughts and behaviors, life desires or situations may have unconsciously fabricated which are not aligned with Reality.

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Well then, it is time for a Reality Check.

*A good way to reestablish Reality, is by redefining the current state of “What Is.” In the big picture of Divine Order and knowing that in taking responsibility for what we create in our own lives, we have chosen to have our life “Exactly As it Is in this Very Moment!” Always.

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So rather than live someone else’s life to avoid taking responsibility for your own, you might simply turn it all around in an instant. Live Your Own Life.  Refocus on what you want and need to be doing for yourself rather than trying to figure out help or rescue others.

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If you are not happy with a life situation large or small, you always have choices.

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Get quiet, become centered, there is no need to Force any decision but rather Allow what you already know as the best possible choice for YOURSELF. By doing this, naturally, everyone around you will feel that pressure diminish and they will be much happier with the relationship also!

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Then, once you have made a choice, Surrender all thought, fear, doubt, concern and worry to Divine Order. Let Go of All Expectations. Everything will always be as it should be.

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Truth is, in any relationship you don’t always need to understand your partner, child, parent, or friend.. It is okay to share life and time with people who see life differently.

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Just allow the world around you to unfold as it does.

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Dr. Wayne Dyer in his interpretation of the Tao Te Ching describes this as “Effortless Action Without Expectation.” Simply being who you are (taking care of yourself and what you need and want to be doing for you) and letting others do the same.

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Life will unfold just as it is meant to whether you fight it or not.

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Surrender. Let it Be!

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Be Inspired!*Live Life’s Joy!

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Dr. Robin L. Futoran

drfutoran@inspirednmotivated.com

http://www.inspirednmotivated.com

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