ImageTHE QUALITY OF MY LIFE IS DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL TO THE QUALITY OF MY RELATIONSHIP WITH “UNCERTAINTY.”

(Secret be told; I have this taped on a bathroom mirror…!)

Here is what this means to me;

So often we delay doing something until we think we understand how it works, know what it will be like, how it will feel and in the end, the way it will all turn out. In doing that, we ponder, procrastinate, over think, over research, write, and never getting to the point of knowing what it is going to be like anyway. Well, it is impossible to “know what it’s going to be like!” And that’s because the only way to know what it is going to be like is:
“TO EXPERIENCE IT…” Take the Action! Even if we are not feeling completely prepared. The only way to know is to Have The Experience…

In order to experience being fully alive, we need to step out of our comfort zone, and participate in things we might fear just because we don’t know or can’t predict the outcome! In other words: The more often we are able to step out of our comfort zone the more Life we experience and greater our quality of life.

We are not supposed to know the outcome! Living life is not about knowing everything past, present or predicting the future! Life is about “experiences.” Then, it is through those experiences that “WE LIVE.” While we are within an experience or have a result from an experience the power (of “living”) continues through the choices we make as a result of that experience.

So rather than allowing results to become blocks, barriers or excuses to discontinue taking the necessary action toward our objective or desire, we use those results to continue moving forward with what is true for us whether the result was positive or negative. We Experience Living! Expand our consciousness.
We Experience Being Alive.

The other choice of not embracing uncertainty in life, is doing nothing, stagnation, a holding pattern, purgatory, and having no experiences. Being anchored in safe repetitive habits of body and mind and waiting-out this incarnation and maybe the next and the next one, and the next one, and having no life experiences… No negative life experience, no positive life experience, no moving towards a grand goal, no having the “experience” of working towards or reaching that big idea, that big dream you have been quietly observing inside yourself for how long?
No relationship with Uncertainty, no real life experiences, no true living, no quality of life…

Fully “Living” your life is about having “life experiences” where the outcome is unknown (the uncertainty) and then “living” and “growing” (not hiding or taking any fearful or limiting message) from the result and taking the next action again within “uncertainty…” This way we are “living a life path of experiences” rather than hiding within a comfortable routine or endlessly “preparing ourselves” and having very small or limited life experiences or no life experience at all…

At the end of the day or end of a life we don’t want to be looking back and saying “I’m sorry I didn’t take the bull by the horns and…., or I wish I would have…”

As Wayne Dyer says “Don’t die with your music still in you…”

What are you waiting to do in order to live a quality life through some uncertainty, of spontaneous, expansive experiences? Because if you are waiting, you’re probably not living…!

It’s time to take that action! Embrace Uncertainty! Enhance the Quality of Living Life!

“Life loves to be taken by the lapel and told: ‘I’m with you kid. Let’s go.'”
Maya Angelou

Life is For Living…. R

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